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MIRUGAM · Posted: Thu May 29, 2008 1:50 pm Post subject:

Black, from my observation, who always hit out at women.

In this topic....we're focusing on both woman and man.....and how their need for sex versus love in marriage.....

If i'm not mistaken....its men who always stray or mentally weak where they usually fail to overcome temptation. Wink

...THE MOMENT ANY GALS GIVE A LOOK, THE MAN THINKS SHE IS INVITING HIM TO SLEEP. Rolling Eyes

......( AMPLICABLE OF SOME THOUGH) Laughing

blackmafia · Posted: Thu May 29, 2008 1:58 pm Post subject:

MIRUGAM · Posted: Thu May 29, 2008 3:49 pm Post subject:

rishi · Senior Member Joined: 06 Mar 2008 Posts: 620

MIRUGAM · Posted: Fri May 30, 2008 9:15 am Post subject:

Of course, rishi.....i'm not telling that all men are weak when it comes to women.... Laughing

There are nice gentlemen out there... Wink

rishi · Senior Member Joined: 06 Mar 2008 Posts: 620

MIRUGAM · Posted: Fri May 30, 2008 9:17 pm Post subject:

This is not relevant to the topic but something to share with you all...

Love vs. Marriage

A student asks a teacher, "What is love?"

The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the wheat field and choose the biggest wheat and come back.

But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick."

The student went to the field, go thru first row, he saw one big wheat, but he wonders....may be there is a bigger one later.

Then he saw another bigger one... but may be there is an even bigger one waiting for him.

Later, when he finished more than half of the wheat field, he start to realise that the wheat is not as big as the previous one he saw, he know he has missed the biggest one, and he regretted.

So, he ended up went back to the teacher with empty hand. The teacher told him, "...this is love... you keep looking for a better one, but when later you realise, you have already miss the person...."

"What is marriage then?" the student asked.

The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the corn field and choose the biggest corn and come back. But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick."

The student went to the corn field, this time he is careful not to repeat the previous mistake, when he reach the middle of the field, he has picked one medium corn that he feel satisfy, and come back to the teacher.

The teacher told him, "this time you bring back a corn.... you look for one that is just nice, and you have faith and believe this is the best one you get.... this is marriage."

suja@15 · Junior Member Joined: 06 Mar 2008 Posts: 66

i like dis story and the concept behind the story mirugam..... unfortunately the concept is fading away in dis modern world. Human beings r just not happy with wat they have and its becoming apparent even in marriages! U dont like ur car then change to another brand new one. U dont like the shoes u r wearing then get a new one..... looks like the spouse is becoming another ornament in a marriage. Men have always been having illicit affairs way back then... tat's why we had concubines and mistresses..... where the wife is the queen of the house and a respected person in society while the kept woman is supposed to b the whore in bed. And its ok with everyone else and happened to b a known fact in society. However my guess is tat our women folk have had enough of all the nonsense over the years and they have started to rebel and thanks to women liberation women nowadays have decided they too can choose their sex partners.

VJeyaa · Posted: Tue Nov 18, 2008 12:50 am Post subject:

what?
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