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Bruce Lee
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| blackmafia wrote: | | anyway i always think that my piece of meat is an exclusive and beautiful one.....only my wife can see it or toush it or scratch it..... |
hahah...bro sya for example u hv a galfriend....if u dont let her touch then she may get suspicious.....its working or not  |
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Bruce Lee
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| Posted: Fri May 16, 2008 6:37 pm Post subject: |
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wow those advocating for sex after marriage are getting a pat in the back........whereas those supporting sex b4 marriage are looked upon like they hv said something very very immoral....shit which is inedible....lustful people who cannot control their desires......
this is natural human tendency........we always think we are holier than the next person just becos we keep to social norms.....u knw...like as long as v follow what we think is good 4 others & what others think is good for us.....we are in the group......
if sumone stands out with diff opinion....oh my god he/she is mr or miss lustfull shit.....yes sex b4 marriage has gt sum risks mentioned by some forummers & society doesn't condone it....... hiv...unwanted pregnancy.....social disgrace or so on.......
but even in sex after marriage all this issues are involved.....yep HIV , umwanted pregnancy......bring disgrace to our family....ya...if a person unknowingly marries an hiv + & is infected...there they go....once the society knw...what happens.....they are even married couples who are separated....not officially divorced yet...the women is pregnant...but staying with parents.....the neighbours do talk bad....i can continue more.....but i will stop here....i mean the example.....
...see social disgrace can happen irrelevant of the situation....its not confined to a certain situation.......if 2 people feel they want to go for it....they hv all the rights to do it......its afterall their life....if we re going to research what made them do it.....we may find ....yes...lust or testing...experiment ..... love.....that is irrelevant...... |
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MIRUGAM
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| Posted: Fri May 16, 2008 9:06 pm Post subject: |
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| Quote: | | its working or not |
Bruce Lee........
Yeap....gals nowadays surely need to make sure about it...  |
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VJeyaa
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| Posted: Fri May 16, 2008 11:34 pm Post subject: |
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| Bruce Lee wrote: | but even in sex after marriage all this issues are involved.....yep HIV , umwanted pregnancy......bring disgrace to our family....ya...if a person unknowingly marries an hiv + & is infected...there they go....once the society knw...what happens.....they are even married couples who are separated....not officially divorced yet...the women is pregnant...but staying with parents.....the neighbours do talk bad....i can continue more.....but i will stop here....i mean the example.....
...see social disgrace can happen irrelevant of the situation........ |
If you really stop to think about why the partner is infected with HIV + in the first place, then it is ANOTHER reason why keeping sex within the marriage boundary makes sense. Lets say that Mr Liberal Mind who thinks nothing about having sex with other open minded adult females and engages in free sex with willing partners but one of them gave him the HIV virus and he then gets married. He will then infect his wife and the example situation you wrote above can happen. But would all this happen if our Mr Liberal Mind beleived in sex within marriage? 
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Bruce Lee
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| Posted: Sat May 17, 2008 1:12 am Post subject: |
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| MIRUGAM wrote: | | Yeap....gals nowadays surely need to make sure about it... |
yep miru....especially after watching "sattam podathey"......... |
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Bruce Lee
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| Posted: Sat May 17, 2008 1:21 am Post subject: |
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| VJeyaa wrote: | | If you really stop to think about why the partner is infected with HIV + in the first place, then it is ANOTHER reason why keeping sex within the marriage boundary makes sense. Lets say that Mr Liberal Mind who thinks nothing about having sex with other open minded adult females and engages in free sex with willing partners but one of them gave him the HIV virus |
hmmm........why nt say the guy was a needle sharing person prior to marriage????
HIV risk is there whether a person practise sex b4 or after marriage..... many drug users form majority of HIV+ people..... safe sex has been succesfully promoted & implemented in malaysia....mayb 2 out of 10 dont use condom....
if nt condom producers would hv run out of biznes ...... condoms re selling!!!! so it means ppl ARE practising safe sex to a great extent.....nobody buys condom & put it in their showcase..... |
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MIRUGAM
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| Posted: Sat May 17, 2008 11:14 am Post subject: |
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| Quote: | | yep miru....especially after watching "sattam podathey"......... |
Good example eh...... |
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VJeyaa
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| Posted: Sun May 18, 2008 9:36 pm Post subject: |
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| Bruce Lee wrote: | hmmm........why nt say the guy was a needle sharing person prior to marriage????
HIV risk is there whether a person practise sex b4 or after marriage..... many drug users form majority of HIV+ people..... safe sex has been succesfully promoted & implemented in malaysia....mayb 2 out of 10 dont use condom.... |
Anyway, just to make it clear. I didnt say that the causes of HIV are 100% from sexual ones alone. Because "The causes of HIV" is not the subject matter being discussed here. There are many causes of HIV, even an innocent blood transfusion can be a cause. But undoubtedly, free sex is also one a leading cause. And BECAUSE it is one, it makes a good case for containing sex within marriage.
| Bruce Lee wrote: | | .....nobody buys condom & put it in their showcase..... |
Actually I also have not heard anyone putting condoms in their showcases unless they are selling them. 
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MIRUGAM
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| Posted: Sun May 18, 2008 9:53 pm Post subject: |
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| Quote: | | Actually I also have not heard anyone putting condoms in their showcases |
HA HA HA.......We never knw....how about putting them in a showcase in the bedroom...sort of kinky collection...what with the various flavour and design... |
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rishi
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| Posted: Mon May 19, 2008 9:22 am Post subject: |
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interesting yes.
but in case a visitor see that, member might faint  |
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blackmafia
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| Posted: Tue May 20, 2008 3:53 pm Post subject: |
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hahahahah
holier than thou....well i am not sure about that.....as i know myself i am not engaged in sex outside marriage.....well let just say that i am being patient until marriage is over....anyway after marriage u have to face the same face and body for long time unless u have any idea to divorce soon....
so no matter they are very stable and going to get married....it is all about self-control....if u know u going to get married y cant we wait for few mre months and perhaps years.....anyway in life there is no thing as stable....even after engaged a marriage comes to halt.....there is no certain until the thali in on the neck....
self -control....my humble self-control  |
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baby_witch
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| Posted: Tue May 20, 2008 11:16 pm Post subject: |
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| blackmafia wrote: | hahahahah
holier than thou....well i am not sure about that.....as i know myself i am not engaged in sex outside marriage.....well let just say that i am being patient until marriage is over....anyway after marriage u have to face the same face and body for long time unless u have any idea to divorce soon....
so no matter they are very stable and going to get married....it is all about self-control....if u know u going to get married y cant we wait for few mre months and perhaps years.....anyway in life there is no thing as stable....even after engaged a marriage comes to halt.....there is no certain until the thali in on the neck....
self -control....my humble self-control |
am captivated... very well said, black
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VJeyaa
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| Posted: Tue May 20, 2008 11:54 pm Post subject: |
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holier than thou?
errrr....whom art thou? 
1 thou = 1 thousandth of an inch
as far as I know
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