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| These days, our culture had been forgotten such as not wearing the religious clothings and attires-saree,dhoti,pottu,metti |
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blackmafia
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Joined: 06 Mar 2008
Posts: 167
Location: Deepest part of hell!!!!
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 Posted: Sat Apr 26, 2008 10:39 pm Post subject: |
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| MIRUGAM wrote: | my humble opinion too...
do you seriously think that wearing pottu and thalli prevent from guys "side adikaren"....
hmmm....so far i never come across any woman who removes pottu and thalli just to attract guys...but i have seen women who wear big kumkumam and manjal thalli behaving cheaply... 
I'm not against our culture or tradition, but i should not interfere with others veiwpoint, yeap...of course you can give some suggestion but not in an insulting way.
anyway black, proud of you yaar. Keep up with your awareness. |
hi mriugam...u r talking at ur point of experience but ia m talking about my point of experience....
thanks for being proud of this panda  |
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baby_witch
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Joined: 06 Mar 2008
Posts: 229
Location: Mud Valley
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| Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 1:07 pm Post subject: |
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| blackmafia wrote: | not about sensitivity mirugam saaare/madam.....u see first of all y not wearing pottu? which is our tradition? second is wearing pottu that shameful? like nitha and paal gova their make their time to wear the pottu to work....welll just not restrict to married women alone, talking about the sngles too....this attitude should be instilled since young.....welll this goes under parentinghood i think or maybe self-reliance....who knows i didnt pin point anyone specifically....but i do know few girls in my office and alos my friends wo got nicely from me.....when they mentioned about not wearing pottu and thalii just to get the thrill of guys site adikeraning them.....so i am not sure about ur intention....but y cant girls spend split second wearing pottu?
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excuse me.. how do you know tht pal wears pottu to work? The first thing tht they told her was that she shouldnt wear pottu, punjabi suits and bright colours to work. She was only allowed to wear three piece(with professional colours like black, grey, white) you cant simply assume ppl without proper facts, Mr. Black.. Just becoz you get to know few cheap girls who says that,you assume every girl is like that is it? Please lah gimme a break.. I dun wish to further argue with you.. you stay with your principals and me.. I will stick with mine..
P/S: Shalu if possible pls let our Mr. Black know abt your office ethnics..
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baby_witch
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Joined: 06 Mar 2008
Posts: 229
Location: Mud Valley
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| Posted: Mon Apr 28, 2008 1:10 pm Post subject: |
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| Quote: | yes i knw that...last time me and baby used to exchange bangles if the
she need not in the collection then she will borrowed it frm me and i will
do the same if i dnt have it....
but now days i notice lot of elderly woman still wearing gold bangles but
not the metal, glass or plastics ....gals like us wearing the colourful
type to mix match to our costume color... wat u think ? |
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We used to do that last time Pal... remember? when we work together... those were the days
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rishi
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Joined: 06 Mar 2008
Posts: 620
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| Posted: Sat May 03, 2008 10:08 am Post subject: |
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its very nice to see indian girls with pottu.
for those who goes without ,thats pretty much their wish/problem and they have their own reasons of course.
but i've never met a married girl who takes of pottu n thali for the
fun of guys attention.
black, im quite shocked 
weird frenz there....
but then again, in the end of the day, the heart is wat matters the most.
anyway, if a girl is behaving high time in a 'below average grade' attitude
its better if she remains without the pottu.
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