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Parent Roles and Responsibility in shaping children

 
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blackmafia
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PostPosted: Sat Mar 08, 2008 1:49 pm    Post subject: Parent Roles and Responsibility in shaping children Reply with quote

hi ladies and gentlemen,

nowadays we can see that we are surrounded by a lot teenagers and youth and even small kids whom lacking in morality section....talking about menace, rowdism, culturalessness, crime, and so on...

so what is/are your opinion of current state parenting and how can it be altered or improved?

shoottt!!!!
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MIRUGAM
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PostPosted: Sat Mar 08, 2008 11:05 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

LOVE......A good way to bring up our children is to love them moderately and shower them with attention, not gifts. Talk to them every day and discuss about their life eventhough the child is in pre-school.

Teach our child about hardship in life and refrain from giving in to their every single whimps.
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PostPosted: Mon Mar 10, 2008 9:55 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

kalau hendak melentur buluh biarlah dari rebungnya......sounds familiar anyone? Parents play an important role in educating their children.... and it has to start from young. When parents give in to every whims and wishes of their children the kids take advantage of the given situation. Teachings of everthing good and bad shud start from base. Communication is an important factor..... talk to ur kids... get to know their emotions and problems.... yes love is another form of communication...... show ur love for them...... i guess the toughest times for the kids r during teenage period where the outside influence is much more greater.....this is where parents have to play according to the situation.......
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blackmafia
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PostPosted: Mon Mar 10, 2008 12:20 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

i agree with suja and mirugam...love is the key ingredient to develop the children Cool
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PostPosted: Mon Mar 10, 2008 12:55 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

just to add to the above, not just love but discipline too. If they are not disciplined from young, dont dream you can discipline when they are grown. Love is discipline, discipline is love. They go hand in hand. Wink
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PostPosted: Fri Apr 04, 2008 7:42 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

suja@15 wrote:
kalau hendak melentur buluh biarlah dari rebungnya......

EXACTLY !!!!...
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