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LoveSeeker · Junior Member Joined: 15 May 2008 Posts: 56

Hi guys...this scenario might sound ridiculous..but it happened and still happening.....its all about marriage.

My uncle is very good looking guy..in his 30's....recently got married secretly in Pahang so my mum invited them for a dinner. The girl..i mean the bride was so pretty, slim,fair...but surprisingly she was very quite...she didn't even say anything except for a "hi" and "thank you"....then i noticed something really abnormal...she has an adam's apple....but normally...for a skiiny lady...it'll be bulging rite...but in this case it was absolutely abmormal....i got a very strange feeling...they had their meal and i saw my uncle was whispering something to my mum...seconds after that...saw mum talking in a very weird manner to my uncle...uncle seems to be convincing over some issues...not known to me...but it got something to do with the bride obviously....then uncle left. All of a sudden mum became the center of attraction...everyone was keep bugging mum...then mum told us that uncle was married to a girl who was once a men....transgender....

My question here is.....
Why do people got interested in transgender?
How will they have their life to go on?
Will this marriage last?

VJeyaa · Posted: Thu May 15, 2008 11:53 am Post subject:

Loveseeker, firstly welcome aboard.

Thanks for sharing the interesting part about your uncle and "aunt" Very Happy

Well, we certainly cant comment on that as they are private matters of your uncle and "aunt". If he' s happy with his choice, so be it. Actually I have a relative who is in the same predicament. Hiw case is worst as the family has chosen to disown him for marrying a transgenedered "bride". For Privacy sake I will just name him Mr X. He is a smart guy, educated and has a good job, etc. I just dont get it either. Wink

However, you have raised some excellent topics that are more suitable to be in the DEBATE room. This is where we could discuss or debate matters such as;

tgopal · Junior Member Joined: 17 Mar 2008 Posts: 40

VJeyaa · Posted: Thu May 15, 2008 12:03 pm Post subject:

Oh well, lets name him Mr X then Wink

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MIRUGAM · Posted: Thu May 15, 2008 1:47 pm Post subject:

HEY LS, why should we get suprised? Maybe there are some qualities in that particular person attracted your uncle. At this point, only one thing matters, your uncle's happiness. If he is perfectly happy, then we should be happy for him and support him. Wink