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blackmafia
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LoveSeeker
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| hats off brother...are u married by the way? |
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Balanitha
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Whether it is arrange or love marriage does not matter much...... the important thing is the couple must try hard to make the marriage last....
There are divorces within months in arrange marriage and divorce within 1st few years of love marriage.....
I know a couple's "arranged marriage" only last for 3 days! I also have seen a 10yrs love went into marriage and broke after a year.
In the same time i've also seen a love marriage where the man is younger than the wife n they are happily married with 3 kids and their grandchild is 1 yr old now.... and a arranged marriage where the couple have 5 kids and 3 grandchildrens.....
So... arranged or love doesnt really matter here.... its how u behave and work towards to keep the marriage last.
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blackmafia
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fuyoooo balanitha ganasnye.....yupe it boils down to attitude and effort...so many people noawadays like to take marriage for granted and always in mentality that the marriage will work out itself....
actually marriage is a big responsibility and needs continuous support and effort to make it success  |
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blackmafia
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| Posted: Thu May 15, 2008 3:45 pm Post subject: |
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| LoveSeeker wrote: | | hats off brother...are u married by the way? |
not yet bro....just moment ago my arivu kannu suddenly opened...maybe due to earthquake in china  |
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VJeyaa
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marriage is like cultivating a precious and fragile plant. You need to water it, fertilize it, prune it, give it sunshine and make sure the weeds are kept away from invading the space around which the plant exists. You need to cultivate it with love, care and honour. ... 
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blackmafia
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| super oh super |
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Balanitha
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| Posted: Thu May 15, 2008 4:10 pm Post subject: |
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| blackmafia wrote: | fuyoooo balanitha ganasnye.....yupe it boils down to attitude and effort...so many people noawadays like to take marriage for granted and always in mentality that the marriage will work out itself....
actually marriage is a big responsibility and needs continuous support and effort to make it success |
Ganas sangat ke??????  Sorry lah... lupa nak letak emoticons!!!! 
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blackmafia
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| Posted: Thu May 15, 2008 4:20 pm Post subject: |
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| Balanitha wrote: | | blackmafia wrote: | fuyoooo balanitha ganasnye.....yupe it boils down to attitude and effort...so many people noawadays like to take marriage for granted and always in mentality that the marriage will work out itself....
actually marriage is a big responsibility and needs continuous support and effort to make it success |
Ganas sangat ke?????? Sorry lah... lupa nak letak emoticons!!!! |
GANAS bin PANAS |
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rishi
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| Balanitha wrote: | | its how u behave and work towards to keep the marriage last. |
so....those not prepared to behave and tolerate, stay away from marriage till u r ready.
at least you wont make the other person's life a living hell... |
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baby_witch
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| Posted: Fri May 16, 2008 3:04 pm Post subject: |
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| rishi wrote: | | Balanitha wrote: | | its how u behave and work towards to keep the marriage last. |
so....those not prepared to behave and tolerate, stay away from marriage till u r ready.
at least you wont make the other person's life a living hell... |
rishi, dun give us cripple excuses from stayig away from marriage...
marriage is a beautiful relationship..between a man and woman where you live for one another in good and bad times... i agree to wat nitha says ... "behaviour is essential in a marriage"
if you know how to maintain the relationship with respect, care and love nothing its not gonna be a disaster... maybe your life would be better than wat you are now...
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MIRUGAM
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| Quote: | | if you know how to maintain the relationship with respect, care and love nothing its not gonna be a disaster... maybe your life would be better than wat you are now... |
Babe, maybe you are gifted or lucky to have found a nice life partner who made your life better and you're leading a blissful married life. This does not happen to most.
Married life is full of challenges and needs constant care and nuture. If we are not mentally prepared to go through the difficult path then our marriage is doomed.
Girls and guys out there need to give themselves at least a year to get to know each other before tying the knot. |
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rishi
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| baby_witch wrote: | | rishi wrote: | | Balanitha wrote: | | its how u behave and work towards to keep the marriage last. |
so....those not prepared to behave and tolerate, stay away from marriage till u r ready.
at least you wont make the other person's life a living hell... |
if you know how to maintain the relationship with respect, care and love nothing its not gonna be a disaster... |
baby, im saying this for those who don't know. shouldn't do R&D with marriage rite...
as for those who know how, im happy for them and salute them. 
and of course you have my salute too... |
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baby_witch
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| Posted: Fri May 16, 2008 4:38 pm Post subject: |
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| MIRUGAM wrote: | | Quote: | | if you know how to maintain the relationship with respect, care and love nothing its not gonna be a disaster... maybe your life would be better than wat you are now... |
Babe, maybe you are gifted or lucky to have found a nice life partner who made your life better and you're leading a blissful married life. This does not happen to most.
Married life is full of challenges and needs constant care and nuture. If we are not mentally prepared to go through the difficult path then our marriage is doomed.
Girls and guys out there need to give themselves at least a year to get to know each other before tying the knot. |
mirugam ... wouldnt know the fact of a blessed marriage life... does it?
You think mine was a peaceful one.. it needed alot of efforts to built up one after so much of troubles that we both went thru... i can proudly now say am content and happy with my life... We only learnt about each other after 5 years of living together and sleeping on the same bed... like i said it needs love, care and attention from either party.both parties. I would say "marriage is like a gamble, win lose or draw its all in your hands...."
You have to strive hard to achieve wat you want in your life so does a marriage. Nothing is easy in our lives...
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baby_witch
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| Posted: Fri May 16, 2008 4:41 pm Post subject: |
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| Quote: | baby, im saying this for those who don't know. shouldn't do R&D with marriage rite...
as for those who know how, im happy for them and salute them.
and of course you have my salute too... |
i wouldnt believe you Rishi... you are noty simply wouldnt wanna get into marriage... i know you are a somberi gal.... but think abt your future are you going to remain like this forever?[/quote]
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