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| These days, our culture had been forgotten such as not wearing the religious clothings and attires-saree,dhoti,pottu,metti |
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blackmafia
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| Balanitha wrote: | Kutty,
i wear pottu everyday... no matter what i wear... pottu is a must... infact i have changed to a bigger size pottu this year compare to previous years.
I also wear metti everyday..... whatever shoe type i wear... only took it out when i was pregnant..... due to leg swallon.
thali.. no way of taking it out......
This year i've also started wearing bangles..... 1st it was out of fashion.... later i started to like it... and continued wearing it even to work..... Remember ... when we meet... i was wearing the bangles with all colours???? i wear that everyday.
I dun see anything wrong or different wearing a pottu for traditional wear and not wearing it for jeans......or office outfit...... same for the size also.... i dun see anything weird or odd on a lady wearing pottu with jeans or official office/meeting/conference dress code.
i think if u choose a nice standard size pottu... u can wear for whatever dress u r wearing..... |
nitha avargale,
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Balanitha
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| Posted: Fri Apr 25, 2008 2:13 pm Post subject: |
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| baby_witch wrote: |
Wearing bangles is neva out of fashion, nitha.. i have a huge collection of bangles.. kan shalu.. we love all the indian stuffs..infact i promote them... i love all indian things.... they are beautiful in every way...... |
Yeah bangles were never out of fashion... but it was only for functions!
I also have huge collection of bangles.......how many of us wear that.. specially the indian bangles...... we don even the original indian bangles.. Glass bangles...... we always opt for metal or plastic.....
what i meant in my earlier post was... i am wearing the indian bangles everyday..... permanently..... i mix the colors... abt 9 colors...... i notice some ppl look at me & by bangles as though i'm alien.... i dont care..... i pakai aje....... even with my office wear (pant/skirt, blouse & blazer)
i just love it!!!!!!!!!!! 
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palgovagal
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| Posted: Fri Apr 25, 2008 2:17 pm Post subject: |
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| Balanitha wrote: | | baby_witch wrote: |
Wearing bangles is neva out of fashion, nitha.. i have a huge collection of bangles.. kan shalu.. we love all the indian stuffs..infact i promote them... i love all indian things.... they are beautiful in every way...... |
Yeah bangles were never out of fashion... but it was only for functions!
I also have huge collection of bangles.......how many of us wear that.. specially the indian bangles...... we don even the original indian bangles.. Glass bangles...... we always opt for metal or plastic.....
what i meant in my earlier post was... i am wearing the indian bangles everyday..... permanently..... i mix the colors... abt 9 colors...... i notice some ppl look at me & by bangles as though i'm alien.... i dont care..... i pakai aje....... even with my office wear (pant/skirt, blouse & blazer)
i just love it!!!!!!!!!!! |
yeah i saw ur colurfull bangles..very nice nitha..keep it up..i also have lot
of collection of bangles but i will only wear if im attending any function
exspecially when wearing saree and punjabi suit ...
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Balanitha
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| Posted: Fri Apr 25, 2008 2:19 pm Post subject: |
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| blackmafia wrote: | | Balanitha wrote: | Kutty,
i wear pottu everyday... no matter what i wear... pottu is a must... infact i have changed to a bigger size pottu this year compare to previous years.
I also wear metti everyday..... whatever shoe type i wear... only took it out when i was pregnant..... due to leg swallon.
thali.. no way of taking it out......
This year i've also started wearing bangles..... 1st it was out of fashion.... later i started to like it... and continued wearing it even to work..... Remember ... when we meet... i was wearing the bangles with all colours???? i wear that everyday.
I dun see anything wrong or different wearing a pottu for traditional wear and not wearing it for jeans......or office outfit...... same for the size also.... i dun see anything weird or odd on a lady wearing pottu with jeans or official office/meeting/conference dress code.
i think if u choose a nice standard size pottu... u can wear for whatever dress u r wearing..... |
nitha avargale,
u rock madam |
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Balanitha
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| Posted: Fri Apr 25, 2008 2:22 pm Post subject: |
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| palgovagal wrote: | | Balanitha wrote: | | baby_witch wrote: |
Wearing bangles is neva out of fashion, nitha.. i have a huge collection of bangles.. kan shalu.. we love all the indian stuffs..infact i promote them... i love all indian things.... they are beautiful in every way...... |
Yeah bangles were never out of fashion... but it was only for functions!
I also have huge collection of bangles.......how many of us wear that.. specially the indian bangles...... we don even the original indian bangles.. Glass bangles...... we always opt for metal or plastic.....
what i meant in my earlier post was... i am wearing the indian bangles everyday..... permanently..... i mix the colors... abt 9 colors...... i notice some ppl look at me & by bangles as though i'm alien.... i dont care..... i pakai aje....... even with my office wear (pant/skirt, blouse & blazer)
i just love it!!!!!!!!!!! |
yeah i saw ur colurfull bangles..very nice nitha..keep it up..i also have lot
of collection of bangles but i will only wear if im attending any function
exspecially when wearing saree and punjabi suit ... |
thanks Pal... i was also like that... kept those bangles for functions....
u know rite .. when we buy it comes in a set.....1 packing...... so i keep some for function use and the rest ... i use it lah!
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palgovagal
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| Posted: Fri Apr 25, 2008 2:27 pm Post subject: |
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[quote="Balanitha"] | palgovagal wrote: | | Balanitha wrote: | | baby_witch wrote: |
Wearing bangles is neva out of fashion, nitha.. i have a huge collection of bangles.. kan shalu.. we love all the indian stuffs..infact i promote them... i love all indian things.... they are beautiful in every way...... |
Yeah bangles were never out of fashion... but it was only for functions!
I also have huge collection of bangles.......how many of us wear that.. specially the indian bangles...... we don even the original indian bangles.. Glass bangles...... we always opt for metal or plastic.....
what i meant in my earlier post was... i am wearing the indian bangles everyday..... permanently..... i mix the colors... abt 9 colors...... i notice some ppl look at me & by bangles as though i'm alien.... i dont care..... i pakai aje....... even with my office wear (pant/skirt, blouse & blazer)
i just love it!!!!!!!!!!! |
yeah i saw ur colurfull bangles..very nice nitha..keep it up..i also have lot
of collection of bangles but i will only wear if im attending any function
exspecially when wearing saree and punjabi suit ... |
thanks Pal... i was also like that... kept those bangles for functions....
u know rite .. when we buy it comes in a set.....1 packing...... so i keep some for function use and the rest ... i use it lah! [/quote
yes i knw that...last time me and baby used to exchange bangles if the
she need not in the collection then she will borrowed it frm me and i will
do the same if i dnt have it....
but now days i notice lot of elderly woman still wearing gold bangles but
not the metal, glass or plastics ....gals like us  wearing the colourful
type to mix match to our costume color... wat u think ?
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Balanitha
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| Posted: Fri Apr 25, 2008 2:33 pm Post subject: |
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those oldies are crazy of gold.... they think they not young to wear the colourful ones..... ppl mite tease them.... this only happens here i think... but i've seen these ladies wear the glass bangles daily.....and change to gold when going for functions.
thats y gold price keep going up.......!
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palgovagal
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| Posted: Fri Apr 25, 2008 2:52 pm Post subject: |
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yeah i agree with u ..some of the really crazy about jewellery...
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blackmafia
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| Posted: Fri Apr 25, 2008 3:55 pm Post subject: |
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wow no wonder they say "OLD is GOLD"  |
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MIRUGAM
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| Posted: Fri Apr 25, 2008 4:23 pm Post subject: |
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| Tanggga kappu pola varuma.... |
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rishi
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| Posted: Fri Apr 25, 2008 5:26 pm Post subject: |
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i guess the gold is supposed to make them a bit higher in class maybe?  |
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baby_witch
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| Posted: Fri Apr 25, 2008 6:33 pm Post subject: |
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well well, no need t be angry here...u seee if u cant even make a effort to put a pottu which consumes about 5-6 mins worst case to symbolize u r married, y bother talking about respect to ur husband if u cant even spend 5 mins to put pottu.....even some case old ppl use to say only widow will be without pottu....so why la girls wanna kill their husband so fast......talking abuot sincere to husband is not a case here.....this about getting over the head when a guys site adikeran u...it is a thrill ill suppose.....
Why do I need to wear pottu to show that am married? Doesnt kungumam on partition of our hair alone shows celarly that we are married? Pottu is just a sticker!!! If you determine a respect of a wife by just applying pottu i cant argue much.. anyway why I care abt wat others think i know i live for my husband.. thats more than enough.. i am just being myself...
Who cares abt other guys who side adikeran!! As long as you know that you belong to someone and tat you are sincere to him.. then i think it should be a problem...
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MIRUGAM
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| Posted: Sat Apr 26, 2008 8:00 am Post subject: |
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| Quote: | | Who cares abt other guys who side adikeran!! As long as you know that you belong to someone and tat you are sincere to him.. then i think it should be a problem... |
yup, you are right too.
When you are sincere and your hubby is ok with it, no problem.
Hmmm....why young guys are very sensitive with this kind of petty issues.
Married ones are normally very cool about all these "pottu" and "thali" things, i think once married, the guys understand what should be given priority.
Not all women wearing thalli 24/7 are "pathini" and those who are not wearing "thali" for some reasons are not whores.
The women without "pottu" or "thali" might have many unexplainable reasons....don't judge them or insult them. |
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blackmafia
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| Posted: Sat Apr 26, 2008 11:49 am Post subject: |
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not about sensitivity mirugam saaare/madam.....u see first of all y not wearing pottu? which is our tradition? second is wearing pottu that shameful? like nitha and paal gova their make their time to wear the pottu to work....welll just not restrict to married women alone, talking about the sngles too....this attitude should be instilled since young.....welll this goes under parentinghood i think or maybe self-reliance....who knows i didnt pin point anyone specifically....but i do know few girls in my office and alos my friends wo got nicely from me.....when they mentioned about not wearing pottu and thalii just to get the thrill of guys site adikeraning them.....so i am not sure about ur intention....but y cant girls spend split second wearing pottu?
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MIRUGAM
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| Posted: Sat Apr 26, 2008 7:46 pm Post subject: |
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my humble opinion too...
do you seriously think that wearing pottu and thalli prevent from guys "side adikaren"....
hmmm....so far i never come across any woman who removes pottu and thalli just to attract guys...but i have seen women who wear big kumkumam and manjal thalli behaving cheaply... 
I'm not against our culture or tradition, but i should not interfere with others veiwpoint, yeap...of course you can give some suggestion but not in an insulting way.
anyway black, proud of you yaar. Keep up with your awareness. |
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