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VJeyaa Senior Member
Joined: 10 Feb 2008 Posts: 673 Location: The weight room...
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Posted: Thu Jul 24, 2008 6:03 pm Post subject: |
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MIRUGAM wrote: | Jey,
I really think that you should stop bickering first of all.
Also stop hitting around the bush and be direct in your message.
Is it wrong to come into any forum to get some thing exciting.....knowledge, discussion and etc.Why you have to insult those who come in here once in a while due to busy schedule?
Is this a community centre or charity centre for us to work hard for its success or survival?
Why you like to insult those who are taking part in LI?When you were once very active in LI and most of the forumers here are from LI.
You used LI to promote your business .....remember?
Why must you insult those who talks about movies or other silly things?
And now you are seriously insulting those who speaks their mind.
Now, you do some thinking why people don't like this forum.....you have beeen promoting non stop but you obviously failing miserably. Only few of us are here...includes me, but you are obviously very vindictive towards me. |
On what basis do you say I am vindictive towards you? I have not even said a word abt you except that I have requested (without compelling) you just as I have asked others to take up some topics to be in charge of. Why do you say I am vindictive?
FYI - I am not insulting anyone who is coming here infrequently. I myself miss the forum sometimes a few days in a row. So I am also sometimes in the infrequent category also. So why do you say I am insulting those infrequent in visiting? Dont you really understand what I am talking about?
You seemd to be offended when I meant no offense to you personally. I am not going to repeat here what i wrote earlier or why I wrote it. I had written in plain English, so read it again for your benefit. _________________ Before you criticize someone, make sure you walk a mile in their shoes. That way, when you do criticize, you're a mile away and you HAVE THEIR SHOES. |
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VJeyaa Senior Member
Joined: 10 Feb 2008 Posts: 673 Location: The weight room...
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Posted: Thu Jul 24, 2008 6:21 pm Post subject: |
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The reason I started MIeC is to have a well moderated Indian community forum that is of some credible standard like those other forums where useful, relevant and positive information are shared within the community. This was something that was lacking in LI, which was what led to the forming of MIeC. Look at the standard of the discussion in LI. Every topic that was started will end up like VP. No standard and no class whether the topics created or the jokers who participate and create a ruckus like using bad words, profanities etc.
The topics in MIeC are not like that. Whichever serious topics we have are serious till the end. Only VP is what it is, which is VP. My vision is to have a good community forum that will benefit every Indian out there with useful information sharing and community building because I am personally involved in this forum. That is my vision.
ALL I am "bickering" about is that I am not able to build this forum on my own and I am enlisting some help from other forumers so that this vision can materialize. That is what my "bickering" is all about. It is NOT about insulting you or anyone else.
If you think I am "vindictive" towards you or that I am insulting you or having any other agenda, the problem is with your own perception.
I hope I have made myself clear. _________________ Before you criticize someone, make sure you walk a mile in their shoes. That way, when you do criticize, you're a mile away and you HAVE THEIR SHOES.
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rishi Senior Member
Joined: 06 Mar 2008 Posts: 620
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Posted: Fri Jul 25, 2008 9:29 am Post subject: |
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good morning everyone.. |
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rishi Senior Member
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Posted: Fri Jul 25, 2008 9:33 am Post subject: |
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ppl, cool down..
we r good frenz here. let's not take anything personal.
lets hope everybody will contribute their best. |
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rishi Senior Member
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Posted: Fri Jul 25, 2008 12:26 pm Post subject: |
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anyone arnd? |
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baby_witch Junior Member
Joined: 06 Mar 2008 Posts: 229 Location: Mud Valley
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Posted: Sat Jul 26, 2008 12:05 pm Post subject: |
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Haiyooo.. am really fed up with you ppl... quarrelling and arguing again and again... pleaselah... am sadlah.. why cant we all be together...and stay united as one.. _________________ We grow by our dreams.... Keep dreaming... |
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palgovagal Junior Member
Joined: 04 Apr 2008 Posts: 128 Location: Kuala Lumpur
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Posted: Sat Jul 26, 2008 2:02 pm Post subject: |
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MIRUGAM wrote: | [img]congratulations! pal[/img]
Keep on climbing the ladder. |
Thanks mirugam...
Hai All...Hw ru all? Hope fine
Just drop by to say hai to u all...
take c ... miss u alll...since u have my contact no. do keep in touch ok...
have a nice weeekend..byeeeeeee _________________ Smile Always ..Its will makes someone's day.. |
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Balanitha Senior Member
Joined: 05 Mar 2008 Posts: 579 Location: "Palace Of Maya"
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Posted: Mon Jul 28, 2008 10:39 am Post subject: |
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Good morning vettis!
ow r u'll? b/fast?
ow was weekend?
Where is Reva missing?? _________________
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Balanitha Senior Member
Joined: 05 Mar 2008 Posts: 579 Location: "Palace Of Maya"
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Posted: Mon Jul 28, 2008 10:44 am Post subject: |
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Mirg & J,
please talk abt it and clarify at soonest and be as normal frenz as ever..... it's better this way than keeping the grudge.... _________________
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rishi Senior Member
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Posted: Mon Jul 28, 2008 12:41 pm Post subject: |
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good afternoon ppl
hows ur day? |
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purple_matrix Junior Member
Joined: 11 Apr 2008 Posts: 50 Location: amityville
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Posted: Mon Jul 28, 2008 1:13 pm Post subject: |
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its cloudy in seremban.traffic iz not tat heavy.purple_matrix reporting 4 buletin tak utama... |
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rishi Senior Member
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Posted: Mon Jul 28, 2008 2:03 pm Post subject: |
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hi purple,
how r u? |
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baby_witch Junior Member
Joined: 06 Mar 2008 Posts: 229 Location: Mud Valley
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Posted: Mon Jul 28, 2008 9:41 pm Post subject: |
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101 Ways to Relieve Stress
* Get up 15 minutes earlier.
* Prepare for the morning the night before.
* Avoid tight fitting clothes.
* Avoid relying on chemical aids.
* Set appointments ahead.
* Don't rely on your memory�write it down.
* Practice preventive maintenance.
* Make duplicate keys.
* Say "NO" more often.
* Set priorities in your life.
* Avoid negative people.
* Use time wisely.
* Simplify meal times.
* Always make copies of important papers.
* Anticipate your needs.
* Repair anything that doesn't work properly.
* Ask for help with the jobs you dislike.
* Break large tasks into bite-size portions.
* Look at problems as a challenge.
* Look for the silver lining.
* Say something nice to someone.
* Teach a kid to fly a kite.
* Walk in the rain.
* Schedule playtime into every day.
* Take a bubble bath.
* Believe in yourself.
* Stop saying negative things to yourself.
* Visualize yourself winning.
* Develop your sense of humor.
* Have goals for yourself.
* Dance a jig.
* Say hello to a stranger.
* Ask a friend for a hug.
* Look up at the stars.
* Practice breathing slowly.
* Learn to whistle a tune.
* Read a poem.
* Listen to a symphony.
* Watch a ballet.
* Read a story curled up in bed.
* Do a brand new thing.
* Stop a bad habit.
* Buy yourself flowers.
* Take time to smell the flowers.
* Find support from others.
* Ask someone to be your "Vent Partner."
* Do it today.
* Work at being cheerful and optimistic.
* Put safety first.
* Do everything in moderation.
* Be aware of the decisions you make.
* Pay attention to your appearance.
* Strive for excellence NOT perfection.
* Stretch your limits a little each day.
* Look at a work of art.
* Hum a jingle.
* Maintain your weight.
* Plant a tree.
* Feed the birds.
* Practice grace under pressure.
* Stand up and stretch.
* Always have a plan "B."
* Learn a new doodle.
* Memorize a joke.
* Be responsible for your feelings.
* Learn to meet your own needs.
* Become a better listener.
* Know your limitations and let others know them too.
* Tell someone to have a good day in Pig Latin.
* Throw a paper airplane.
* Exercise every day.
* Learn the words to a new song.
* Get to work early.
* Clean out one closet.
* Play patty cake with a toddler.
* Go on a picnic.
* Take a different route to work.
* Leave work early (with permission).
* Watch a movie and eat popcorn.
* Write a note to a far away friend.
* Go to a ball game and scream.
* Cook a meal and eat it by candlelight.
* Recognize the importance of unconditional love.
* Remember that stress is an attitude.
* Keep a journal.
* Practice a monster smile.
* Remember you always have options.
* Develop a support network of people, places and things.
* Quit trying to "fix" other people.
* Get enough sleep.
* Talk less and listen more.
* Freely praise other people.
* Relax, watch a sunset.
* Take one day at a time�you have the rest of your life to live. _________________ We grow by our dreams.... Keep dreaming... |
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purple_matrix Junior Member
Joined: 11 Apr 2008 Posts: 50 Location: amityville
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Posted: Mon Jul 28, 2008 11:17 pm Post subject: |
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hi rishi...i m ok here...aadavan punniyethele.how bout u bro? |
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VJeyaa Senior Member
Joined: 10 Feb 2008 Posts: 673 Location: The weight room...
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Posted: Tue Jul 29, 2008 11:13 am Post subject: |
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morning vetties...
_________________ Before you criticize someone, make sure you walk a mile in their shoes. That way, when you do criticize, you're a mile away and you HAVE THEIR SHOES. |
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